Over the years, I have taken many women to the theater, including several whom I have never seen again. At first, finding women to go to an adult theater was a "needle in a haystack" proposition, but if you asked enough - and were smart about it - you could find a willing volunteer now and then. (Read a few of my stories for specific information.)
The internet, of course, has made that process much easier. I almost never go to a theater alone these days, unless I am just in a completely voyeuristic mood, or find myself out of town for work without much notice. I have found that there are a lot of women who are curious about the idea of public sex, gloryholes and sex in porn theaters. You just have to know where to find them. I'll give you a hint, CraigsList is not your answer.
I currently subscribe to a few adult dating sites. All of these have worked for me at one time or another with varying degrees of success. Your mileage may vary, of course, but I have found it worth my time and my money to actually pay for subscriptions to these sites.
- Ashley Madison - Consistently my most productive site these days. (UPDATE: This site has become so effective more me, that I rarely use the others anymore. Nearly a 100% hit rate, which is almost difficult to believe.) Mostly wives looking for an affair - short term or otherwise. In fact, I limit my searches to "Attached women looking for men". They are there for one reason only. In fact, most are not looking for "boyfriends", they just want to get laid, or they are looking for something "different" than the same old thing with their man. The site does a lot of mainstream advertising and are often featured on various news programs, so they have a clientele that often is unaware of other adult dating sites, and they GUARANTEE results! One last tip. A free account here gets you almost nowhere. Pay only for the cheapest level, but a paid account seems to create a little more trust with the ladies. Here are three examples from women I have met in a three month period:
- 45-year-old teacher, who loves the gloryholes. In our early conversations she said she loved oral and was slightly submissive. I suggested gloryholes. She had never heard of them but was eager to try. Thought I might never get her out of Annabelle's the first time we went. On our second trip, she sampled the theater, but preferred the holes. Very sexy.
- 48-year-old mom who just wanted some attention. She loves being shown off in theaters. Sexual contact has been limited to oral, but she gives good head and loves watching guys get off on her.
- 39-year-old nurse, who has a friend. Yep. First time we met she brought a friend for safety. We had a drink then did a recon mission to the theater. Second time we fucked in a hotel (just the two of us). Last week we played in a porn theater. She tells me now that her friend would like to join us on the next trip. Both of these women are married.
- Adult Friend Finder - The grandaddy of them all. Swingers from all over the world, but too many other single men make the competition fierce - especially if you are looking for a single lady. Again, be honest in what you are looking for. There is a woman near you with a similar itch to scratch. Also a great place for finding couples who like to play games.
- Kasadie - I stumbled across this place a while back while watching a swingers show on Playboy TV. One of the women was wearing a tiny tank top advertising the site. I have since learned that it is where Playboy goes to find "lifestylers" to appear in their show. It has become the place that I, too, have been finding more and more swinging couples into exhibitionism and voyeurism. Compared to AFF lately, I find there to be more "real" couples and the average age seems to be much younger. Many of them seem eager to find an, um... "experienced" gentleman to show them the ropes. Your mileage may vary.
Post your profile. Be HONEST. Show a little intelligence, a sense of humor and be willing to be patient - even after you have made initial contact with a lady. Offer to take her for coffee or drinks sometime so that she can see you aren't a (complete) pervert. Tell her from the start what you are looking for and ensure that you will honor her limits. For me, part of the joy is watching them go from curious/nervous to taking on the whole room. Be patient, let them go at their own speed, make them feel safe and you never know where things might lead.
One last point, don't be afraid to look for couples. The percentages are harder, but many couples would appreciate a "veteran" showing them the ropes at a porn theater.
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